Yesterday’s episode made complete fools of ourselves, don’t you think? Seems to me that the series screenwriters thumbed their noses at us! For example, we didn’t learn anything much and the little we found out yesterday wasn’t what we had been expecting at all for the past two weeks! I must say I have mixed feelings: on the one hand I feel pretty excited by all the unexpected drama; on the other hand I feel like I was happily taken in by the series writers, even maybe by the cast themselves!
Before I start going back to the “Treasure of Serena Madre” episode with a critical eye, I insist upon the fact that I absolutely love the show and that my article is not about pointless complaining about it…I’m just trying to understand the point of it and its possible dramatic value in itself, not just on the fan biased angle.
Okay, first things first: the plot and the setting. I was sooo looking forward to seeing this episode because obviously all the cast was meeting at Lily and Rufus’ place and the whole “everybody’s got a secret” thing was looking very very spicy! It wasn”t like Lily’s “fifth” wedding where every plot and scheme had to be turned off for the good cause and in the outdoors. The meal gathering theme sounded very familiar with the wonderful “Seder anything” episode where less drama was involved, and around a religious celebration, and still…”Seder anything” was, in my “writer” opinion a very good episode because a specific tone was chosen for the whole episode, that was burlesque and farce; and therefore that unity made the rest of the individual intrigues (Dan and Serena, Cyrus and his mother, Serena and Gabriel) linked altogether. Here, in this episode…
Well the sudden and coincident invitations to Lily’s was quite well-handled, true…although it seemed at times clumsy and unrealistic (Lily in the street congratulating some stranger for her coat? I always thought she was to tight-assed, but yeah..weird but funny, how it broke the idea I had of her character). The whole purpose to gather them at the Van der Woodsens-Humphreys was obvious and well-known and somehow made to make us stamp with impatience -like I personally did, expecting the “Blair in the cake” moment in the “Grandfather part II” episode-. The waiting was all the more justified than two main questions were to be answered after lots and lots of hypotheses and gossip: Who was pregnant? and of course, Who would Serena choose over down in the street, Nate or Tripp?

I really feel like the writers tried to build a whole 42minute episode around those two big issues and that, in order to make the waiting bearable, they added past issues to the bunch, like you would add some pie or turkey on the table, to make everything brighter and more mouth-watering. Between Eric’s plotting against Jenny (which takes us back to at least three weeks ago), between Vanessa’s mother return as well as Sissy (?) and Eleanor’s, between the endless Dan getting over the threesome thing, it was hard to keep our interest focused on for each and everyone of them. Among them, I especially enjoyed Eleanor’s short return to New York, more colourful than the other short stories which sounded like they had been playing on and on forever, and Rufus’s blunder during the whole dinner. The episode lacked coherence and unity, both in plot (Serena’s father has been the underlining plot of the season and was passed over in silence with Lily out of the table), each character -or couple of characters worrying about their own problems, and lacked unity of tone: confusion and indifference prevailed upon horror, stupefaction or anger…Therefore the only possible joy we could have felt watching the episode was to be cherished and rare.
And there were tiny pieces of joy! The pregnancy gossip had nothing of a huge “drama-among the rich and famous”, it came out with such humility and simplicity, it added some sweet freshness to the confined atmosphere of the suite. Blair went through a huge amount of very different emotions and feelings in that single episode, until losing herself into her past bad habits (arent’ these bulimia habits typical of Thanksgiving? I think that it always has to do with a pie…), from almost wise lady to vexed spoiled child looking after her inheritance…Whereas some sad “drame bourgeois” is already happening in the Van der Woodsens, mother and daughter, son and step-sister, the Waldorves went deeper into closeness and true affection: whether it was the fondness we have for Dorota, who’s not just another maid, or the great relationship Blair has with her mother, their likeness (Eleanor giving her daughter the key to Manhattan’s conquest), those were pure delight! Did you know that Varnia was a man? Naively I thought it was either a russian book/movie or a girl-friend!
But apart from those moments, it was all just “last season”: we still don’t know what Serena’s father wrote in that letter -but we know Serena knows and that maybe it has to be kept a secret, this would explain why Maureen is so cheered up by its discovery (blackmail over making it public?); we are being confirmed that Dan is in love with Vanessa and that she’s not/doesn’t have a clue; that Eric still holds a grudge against Jenny and plans his revenge. And finally, we still know that Nate loves Serena and that Serena’s “affair” (I have to say how surprised I was that nothing more happened between them than a kiss…) wasn’t just a one time teenage fling.
Then what’s new, what have we learned so far, may we ask?
And this is where the episode shows its quality: it seems this episode was made for us not to be too demanding with the drama and great turn of events; that we can make hypotheses and plan to foresee each apparent gossip ahead, somehow this childish curious and impatient behavior of ours is not the right way to watch the show -unless of course you enjoy making plans that ought to be fooled (never trust a teaser that’s for sure!)…Thanksgiving is a holiday: maybe the series characters want to take a break off big dramas sometimes, maybe this is not the reason they act and think and feel this way. Gossip Girl is fiction and true, it aims at pleasing the audience and at keeping up their breath; but what makes it a good show is its ability, from time to time to give way not to strategical drama calculations, but to the various beautiful human core of its characters.
Time to look at ourselves in the mirror folks: how about we cut off the trivial speculating for a while?

simply a greaaaat obsevation
comclusion: desperately needing to see the next episode for some answers indeed.
f**k i love this series!
thanks, I’m glad to find out people actually do read my articles!
agree with ur post very much
by the way its not varnia its vanya which is a russian guys name
thanks for the correction…lol I don’t know anything about russian names except those like boris, marat or dimitri, and I was pretty far from having it right, with my idea of a russian sentimental book or movie Dorota would have watched…
Can any of you tell me if we’ve laready seem him before in the series, and especially about his relationship with Dorota?that seemed brand new to me!
thanks
always known him! he’s always been the van der woodsens portier and has always had something with dorota (cant recall which episode it was but once all the different maids met while the families van der woodsen, woldrof etc were in the hamptons….and there they were already talking about dorotas and vanyas love…oh, okay, now i recall…taht was all in the “dorota” spinoff…never watched it? she’s a daughter of a polish earl or something higher and she was supposed to marry some guy who wanted her money but she didnt agree on it because she loves vanya.
to sum it up: he’s always been there and always been in love with dorota
xoxo
a dorota spin-off? god!! no, I’ve never heard of that! do you know how that spin off is called?
anyway, thanks a lot !
And I thought I knew the series by heart!
I’ve read your article. I love it. Thanks 4 sharing us
It’s very helpful
MAy be some eps this time not interesting like s01 or s02
But it’s better now
I hate three some storyline. It’s disgusting. WHy they dumb guest by this story??
I cant understand what Serena is thinking anymore
So conplicated so messy
What is in the letter? Maureen I hate this character. I think grandfather is better than her. She is so mean.
Pooor Nate. He tod serena everuthing he feel
Chuck and Blair are the best couple for this time.
Everytime Chuck offer sth, Blair always says C “It’s b’zuc I love you”
They are so cute.
thank you!
I’m glad i can help..although you’ll have to tell my how I am of any help to you, i’d like to know?!
Has any of you already watched the teaser for the next episode?
I think, having watched it, that the tripp-serena affair is good for the drama, bringing sooner and faster a greater tension than the one we would have had if Serena had chosen Nate over Tripp: this would have made this part of the storyline quieter and calmer, since Nate is kind of a shy guy ( as I said in my “Boys make you stupid and boys make you lucid, part 2″ article..)
oh-so-true. it is fun to watch her pick tripp over nate-but only because i know that’ll be nerena at the end. otherwise i’d be furious i mean how can she tripps so strange and nate just plain awesome (ok, im more of a chucklover but well…nate’s really doing great)….but i hope it’ll take its turn soon and finally be NERENA…and for maureen. i hate her, too. but i understand her. she’s married. she loves him. and she wanted to “hlep”. she totally fits into that family, where only tripp and nate are different than the rest. the rest is as mean as maureen. so she’s great for them. and well….trippp is more of an idiot depending on serena. nate seems to be a good guy…but he is greater, has got a nice way of being, surprising…i dont know. i think he’ll get far some day lol…and the teaser for the debarted is really mean haha i wanna know know know….but again: thank you “pat lester” ofr posting these long-texted things. they’re great for surviving the week
xoxo
You”re more than welcome!
Actually it’s funny you should thank me for my long articles since I’ve always thought it was was discouraged most of the site visitors from reading them! And the fact of the matter is I don’t initially intend on making them that long! It’s just that there’s so much to say, so many great themes you can connect between different or identical scenes, lots of echoes throughout the whole series! The characters are always evolving with one another and since every episode is supposed to take place at least one week later than the previous one, a lot can be going on in the characters’ minds!
About the van der bilt couple, I don’t know…To me it’s easier to understand Maureen side than Tripp’s, who, in my opinion, is not such a good hearted perfect congressman as he seems to be.. Especially at the end of this episode where he was waiting in the car..He seems so sure that Serena will follow him, he has this disdainful way of taking her for granted (and on this I absolutely match Blair’s view), he knows how troubled and impressed Serena feels with him, and he needn’t much to get her on her sides: after all he’s a politican , he knows how to handle words and how to make them sound true..
Moreover we cannot judge Maureen even with the drowning man set-up..After all, marriage is about for better, for worse, no?
Haha, I feel completely the odd one out here. I actually loved this epsiode! Haven’t been a fan of S03 so far, I think they’re ruined the best characters and it’s all been a bit staid. But this episode! It was so tense and I am finally excited about what’s to come. The Thanksgiving dinner was amazing with everyone slowly falling apart. I can’t wait to see what happens.
could you tell me a little more about why you enjoyed the episode so much? I mean i enjoyed it but more because I was feeling taken aback by the unexpected than because I was given the answers I had wanted to have!
u got it right.. ! i loved the episode.. XD
by the way, i think its cece..
the grandmother s name is Cece (for Celia)
I like the way you write, you give Gossip Girl fans a good name rather than the preconception that we are all simply “little teeny boppers”
I enjoy reading what you have to say although I don’t agree with all, it is always good to hear other opinions and yours is written so well and explained in such depth that I find myself changing my views on some matters
(:
thanks!
well you must tell me what you don’t agree with me and on what I make you change views, because if we exchange opinions and discuss what we don’t agree we’ll have a nice and interesting debate! And this is one thing i always hope for writing my articles, that the readers will give me their opinions!
I’m open to any interpretation!
That sounds good (:
So firstly I’ll start with your point on Lily. Although it was only small it was something I had not even thought twice about but your mention of the fact of the unlikeness of her complimenting a stranger actually is a silly characteristic mistake they made; so props to you for realising that one (:
I also noticed you mentioned the multi-plot (it seemed you didn’t like it?) I loved it! It was refreshing from the normal focus on a few key issues. It was a perfect mixture of all characters and I think they utilized the episode perfectly to unfold, subtly, all these new individual plots. So that’s I guess where I differ from your reaction of it being both lacking “coherency” and “unity.” I find that they all seemed to link in together in the sense that Thanks Giving has always been a trying occasion for all the Gossip Girls, Boys and Olds and now they all share the burden of both their own and other’s secrets and we get the pleasure of wondering, what will they do with them now?
And Blair… where to start
The way she dealt with the pregnancy was like watching her take an immediate, unnecessary (and unexplained) time warp back to season 1 where she was selfish, petty and immature. I didn’t like it at all. When will they let her grow up?
Your general opinion on the episode from a writer’s perspective and the characters in general is what I really like about your article, it made me think. So thanks, I enjoyed it a lot.
I’d like to know what you think about my opinions if you have time
Sorry it’s so long and I hope I don’t sound too pretentious or whiney, I really don’t mean to.
don’t worry about your long answers, the longer the better!
I had written a very long answers but the site had a problem so it erased it all, i’ ll try write it down again…
ok two things:
- true, thanksgiving was the opportunity ofr a traditionnal “gather and deal with your personal issues” episodes; but what I didn’t like in the episode was that it didn’t seem plausible at all; do you remember well the Seder Anything episode? In that one, lots of personal issues were dealt with at the table, but one most plausible element played its part: the drama was public and everybody could hear about everything, although the guests tried to focus on the Seder ceremony…And there were about 8 guests or something like that…Here, there are about a dozen guests around the table and no one apparently hears what everybody is saying, and that’s really not plausible at all! When I watched the teaser, the “you’rev the one who’s pregnant” and “your affair ends now” line let me iamgine they would cause a huge scene or a scandal since the’re said among few people, around a not that huge table! Well everybody acts as if they didn’t hear or as if they didn’t care and this indifference prevailing upon amazement or shock doesn’t seem very plausible..(is rufus that far taht no one hears about his joke but his two neighbours?) In the Seder anything episode there were many personal intrigues interfering but the fact that you couldn’t help but overhearing them was what made some unity of tone possible! And indifference as a tone is not very gossip girl thanksgiving to me…
-I totally agree about Blair in this episode; but I think that she was behaving this way just in this single episoe, beacause it had to do with family issues..it would be interesting to see Blair’s behavior in her family as opposed to the one among other people..Blair is not a queen, she’s just a spoiled whimsical only child who’s afraid of being abandoned and who struggles to keep what is her due, shielding from stranger or intruders (her father’s boyfriend, Cyrus, the moving out…) I wish they would have made a paralleled sequence between Eleanor’s return to home and Blair – Serena’s return to Lily’s and Lily (I had almost forgotten that Serena didn’t live in the suite anymore!) because their relationship clearly is not the same…I think Blair is learning from her mistakes, besides the family compulsive behavior she showed in that episode (understandable: her mother hadn’t been home for months while her daughter was facing some personal and scholar issues), she has learned, like Chuck to enlarge her “intimate” circle and to take further else, onto further people her plans to rule and conquest… It would be great to see Blair and chuck in Blair’s family because she would be confronted with a dilemma: she would either take the risk to ruin her relationship with chuck by showing him her spoiled brat side or she could try in that last are to mature and not to be that childish..Chuck isreally the one to temper her all the way…
I’m really looking forward to seeing her dealing with chuck’s past one year after all the things she’s been going through for him..Will she be the one to temper this time?
Wow!
You’ve swayed me once more. I do see now how the episode is, a little dodgy per say. I too had thought at the time it was weird no one seemed to react to everyone’s individual secret outbursts but I hadn’t put it into too much consideration. You raise a really good point.
I also see your point about Blair, and if by going from the promotional video with Chuck and Blair’s conversation about his dad I think you’re right again, she won’t be the same child she is when dealing with her own issues but will be strong for Chuck.
I’m really excited for the next episode and you’re breakdown of it (:
P.s did you do well in debating at school? I have a feeling you did
hey!
it’s funny we really seem to get along…How about we give each other’s mail? lol lol Personally I would love that, you’re the first one that much into dialoging and making the discussion about drama progress!
I saw blair and chuck conversation about an hour ago an I must that at first I was all “oh god Blair, stop it, you’re doing too much of it, shut up” but by the end of the sneak peek, seeing her just saying the plain truth to chuck about his feeling towards his father’s anniversary was just the right thing to do and I was like “thumbs up, girl! You’re really improving yourself” like when she told Serena in the last episode about “doing the right thing” I was almost proud of her..
It’s funny you should mention debating because at school debating is really not a huge deal, teachers where I went (and where i’ve lived) are more about teaching you the Truth about fiction works or having you debate about trivial things (or silly topics that can never be resolved in a 15 min debate like death penalty -in english class especially)…And when I got to say what was on my mind, most of the time they would just say that was irrelevant simply because that was not the traditional way to look at the writer or the genre..I suck at academical works, essays and such because to me waht matters is not to get the one and only possible or agreed true but to try and understand it, to feel it personally. At least it’s what I’ve always done as a reader or a viewer, and it’s what I still do with this series. I’m great about feeling sympathy for characters.
How about you?
It’s me again
sorry I didn’t reply straight to you, for some reason the site wouldn’t let me :S
But anyway…
I really agree with that (what you said about school and such)! I’ve only just graduated but I found teachers restricting in that way also. It wasn’t about the quality of the topic you wrote or spoke about it was how well it fit into their criteria. Like, in my English class I managed to turn a 600 word essay on Classics into a few thousand words because I couldn’t help but pull to pieces the characters themselves and every theme touched on (no matter how insignificant) I just wanted to try and explain both to myself and the teacher why the author may have made those character or plot choices! lol
But yes, I really like your ideas and views and the ways that you voice them, my email is brit_tfy@hotmail.com
I think there are good things to come of season 3 and we will see the characters change in ways we haven’t even considered. I’m excited (: